Just Be Real…A Christmas Message

As we step into the Christmas season, it’s a perfect time to pause and reflect—not just on the holiday itself, but on what it teaches us about how we live our lives. Christmas is a celebration of the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ, and His entrance into the world reminds us of something powerful: humility. Jesus didn’t come in grandeur. He didn’t demand the best palace or the finest clothes. He came humbly, born in a manger, to bring hope and salvation to a broken world.

Think about that for a moment. The King of Kings, the Creator of all things, came into the world in the most modest of circumstances. He didn’t need to prove anything to anyone. He wasn’t concerned with appearances, status, or wealth. He came to fulfill His mission, to love, to serve, and to save. His life was the ultimate example of being real, of being authentic.

Yet, how often do we find ourselves caught in the trap of trying to prove something? Whether it’s through social media posts, the way we talk, or the image we try to project, so many of us are guilty of putting on facades. We want people to think our lives are amazing, that we have it all together, that we’re successful, happy, and thriving. But deep down, most of us know this isn’t the full picture. Life is messy. We all have struggles, disappointments, and moments when we feel like we’re not enough. Still, we try to cover up those parts of our lives because we think people don’t want to see them. We think they only want to see the highlight reel.

Here’s the truth: People are not looking for perfect. They’re looking for real. They’re looking for authenticity, honesty, and vulnerability. They want to see the real you—the struggles, the victories, the faith, and the flaws.

Jesus could have come to earth in any way He chose. He could have been born into wealth, power, and prestige. He could have made an entrance that would awe the world. But instead, He came in the humblest way imaginable. His life wasn’t about putting on a show; it was about being obedient to the Father and fulfilling His mission.

If we’re followers of Christ, shouldn’t we strive to reflect that same humility? Why are we so focused on trying to prove something to the world? Why do we feel the need to build ourselves up, to make it look like we’re better, smarter, or more accomplished than we really are? Instead, let’s take a cue from Jesus. Let’s strip away the facades and focus on what truly matters: loving God, loving people, and walking humbly in the calling He’s given us.

This Christmas season, let’s evaluate ourselves. Are we spending more time trying to impress people than we are being authentic with them? Are we so caught up in making our lives look amazing that we’ve forgotten the beauty of just being real? Remember, Jesus didn’t come to impress the world. He came to save it. His humility, His authenticity, and His love changed everything. And when we live authentically—when we stop trying to prove ourselves and simply live in obedience to Him—we can make an impact too.

So, let’s stop pretending. Let’s stop putting so much energy into building up facades that are only exhausting to maintain. Instead, let’s be real. Let’s be honest about our struggles, our joys, and our journeys. Let’s live lives that point to Jesus—not because we have it all together, but because we know the One who holds it all together.

In this season of reflection, let’s remember the humble manger, the simple life of our Savior, and the incredible power of authenticity. The world doesn’t need another facade. It needs people who are willing to be real. This Christmas, and every day, let’s choose authenticity over appearance, humility over pride, and Jesus over everything else. Because when we do, we reflect the true spirit of the season—and the true heart of our Savior.

Just be real. That’s what people are looking for. That’s what Jesus modeled. And that’s what will truly make a difference in this world.